Monday, November 7, 2011

Parenting :: Giving them Grace


I have been very blessed by this book:


This is the hardest thing about parenting.  Not the diapering, or feeding, or driving around, but the giving of the gospel.  Giving them the law is easy.  Telling them to follow your rules and punishing them for disobedience is simple.  We just need to be more consistent, right?

Well, what about grace.  What about teaching them that righteousness cannot be gained through the law.  I don't want Jesus death on the cross to count for nothing in my home. (Gal 2:20-21)

I want Jesus death for sin to be the most important thing.

And here at the end of chapter three:
"Do you want to do the work of God?  Okay, then believe.  Believe that God is strong enough to save your children, no matter how you fail.  Believe that he is loving enough to bring them all the way into relationship with himself, whether you understand "grace parenting" or not.  And believe that he is wise enough to know the right way and the right time to do it.  What do you need to do?  Simply believe...
In the words of Martin Luther, "The law says, 'do this,' and it is never done.  Grace says, 'believe in this,' and everything is already done."  Everything is already done.  Car you believe that?  Will you?"

"Even though the tight buckles and restricting harnesses of the law might feel like a welcomed security to you, in the end they will chafe, and you'll want to throw them off.  The law may serve for a time to keep your kids from rocking the cage too much, but eventually it will chafe against them, too.  They will look for ways around it.  The law cannot save them either.  Tight buckles and restricting harnesses might make you feel more secure but the shocking truth is that you cannot control the direction of the gondola - you're completely at God's mercy.  
Does that frighten you?  Why would it?  Doesn't the gospel teach us that being at God's mercy is a place of rest and blessing?  Isn't falling into his merciful arms a good thing?"

May my family find rest in God alone and not in our "good works".


Friday, September 23, 2011

This Moment::Growing up

{this moment} - A Friday ritual. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember. 

Linking up here.

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

My Favorite August Picture


Family Camp 2011

I was able to take some time for myself and take a walk with my camera.

  I only had the kit lens with me but the kit lens is not too bad.  I don't have editing software so I only touched up the fill light, highlights, and shadows.

Its fun to take pictures of flowers.  I think that I should have moved over a little (or waited for the cloud to move over) to make the cloud off to the right of the picture more and more blue to appear behind the flower.  Each picture I look at carefully teaches me something new to look out for next time.  Hopefully I'll remember this the next time I'm shooting the sky!

Want to see all the other August favorites?  Go here:



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Monday, August 29, 2011

Noticing the Gifts:: First Day of Homeschooling

Sometimes I am so surprised by where God takes me.
I still can't get over that I am here in Minnesota, that I'm a wife and a mother, and that I have five kids!
I'm still amazed at how God carries me through and accomplishes things in my life that I can't imagine doing on my own.

I'm also often surprised by the beauty each day holds.  I'm so thankful for how the camera can capture that beauty and since I've been practicing taking pictures I seem to find beauty more and more.  I see "the most perfect picture" when my daughter runs up to the open doors of the ballet studio and squeals with delight.  I see how the light reflects off the water at the lake, I see the sun falling on the table...

I see the beauty in school supplies!

And it's not just beauty for beauty sake.  It is a reflection of our Heavenly Father's beauty.  It is His goodness and love and do you know what?  It is everywhere!

I'm so thankful that:
34. He is with me and taking me to new places every day.
35. He helps me to plan.



36. And clean.



37. and prettify.


38. and pre-test.


39. And just love schooling at home.


I love these pictures because they make school look so
peaceful
simple
and
CLEAN.

  My last post might have worried you a bit.  You might have thought that there was no way I was going to start school today.  YET, I was able to clean up (with God's help - seriously it was like someone else was cleaning for me!) and things were organized just in time.
oh, so that was number 40 up there:  He got me organized just in time.

So to be real let me just tell you that today was not perfect.  There was some yelling from mom, a crying three year old, a broken glass in the sink, a bathtub full of seashells, chocolate frosting all over the kitchen, and a lot of TV watching.

Yet, I'm thankful that:
41. Ben is learning to read.
42. My daughter is learning to cook.
43.  I am able to leave the house on short notice ALONE!

Remember that our God is good and that we are his beloved children.  We are His children!

And yes, I did say a bathtub full of seashells.

Friday, August 26, 2011

The last hurr- (ha ha)

So this is my attempt to be witty.

Yesterday we went on our last "field trip" of the summer.  Our last hurrah, so to speak, and we went to Minnehaha creek.  Get it?  Hurr-haha.  Don't blame me if you hurt yourself laughing.

Anyway.....
Going to the falls was something I've wanted to do since we moved here.  I was a little afraid that I would get some grief from my olders about walking around in nature.  But a few days stuck in the house with nothing to do really changes ones perspective.  They were glad to get out and do something... anything!  And guess what?  They really enjoyed themselves!

Ok, the picture above really made me laugh when I took it.  Do you see there on the right how the middle sister is hanging on the big sister?  She posed like that right at the last minute because she knows that big sis would NEVER let her touch her like that!  Big sister's face is reflecting the shock and horror.  I'm so glad I got to capture this!


So here is the falls.  Amazing that this is next to the airport and really close to downtown.  We climbed down the stairs and ate lunch.  Even though there were a few buses of day care kids (a nightmare for homeschool field trips)  the place was still peaceful.  See a class of them on the top looking over?  They were the yellow t-shirt group.


We walked down the path just a little ways and we reached an area to wade.  We really didn't know what to expect on this trip.  We could not find much information about this park online or even a map when we got there!




This ended our little trip.  It was just long enough to want to come back.  We have some plans for Nana and Grandfather!

And this being our last hurrah, homeschool starts on Monday.


Wish me luck!  (yes, that is my school room.)

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Yarn Along :: 10 on 10 edition

I'm linking up two places today.  Something I said I would never do but I really don't want to do two posts in one day.  SO...if you are here for the yarn along and wonder what the 10 on 10 thing is go here and if you are here for the 10 on 10 and you want to see what people are knitting and reading go here.

For the yarn along look for the 4:00 picture.

9:00ish


My coffee brewing.  The picture is a bit blurry but it accurately depicts how I felt.  Turned off my alarm in my sleep and 9:00 is what happened.

10:00ish 
Needing a little pretty in my life.

11:00ish
Collecting the goggles to take to the lake.

12:00ish - 1:00ish


Fudged on this one.  We were not having fun.  Having a family full of girls sometimes is really hard.  We were still home and not very happy.

2:00ish


Their first plunge.  Waiting for the life guard to let them in after the hourly safety check.  (notice the goggles)

3:00ish


Wafer break.  The goggles are very important as you can see.

4:00ish
I am still knitting myself the same sweater.  It is taking forever to knit the scarf-y thing that goes around my neck.  I still LOVE this grey color and a few months back I was knitting in a group setting and a little girl squeezed the yarn and said,  "Oh, soft and squishy."  Yes, soft and squishy it is!

I'm reading this EXCELLENT book on prayer.  Paul Miller is so real about our human condition and what real prayer is supposed to be like.  
Here is a quote:
"This is the gospel, the welcoming heart of God.  God cheers when we come to him with our wobbling, unsteady prayers.  Jesus does not say, "Come to me, all you who have learned how to concentrate in prayer, whose minds no longer wander, and I will give you rest."  No, Jesus opens his arms to his needy children and says, "Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest".  The criteria for coming to Jesus is weariness.  Come overwhelmed with life.  Come with your wandering mind.  Come messy."

If you ever have struggled with prayer this book is for you!  (wow, that sounded like a Reading Rainbow moment - da da da - could you hear that?)

5:00ish

(taken by Emma)
Packing up to leave.
The lake was a much needed breath of fresh air.  It was cool and breezy and the puffy clouds gave us breaks from the sun.  Praise God for His little blessings!

So this turned out to be 8 on 10.  I did enjoy taking pictures today, and knitting, and playing at the lake, and being with my kiddos.  (even though that was pretty touch and go for a while!)


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Thursday, August 4, 2011

I learned... Manual Mode.

Not so long ago I got brave (about my camera that is) and after reading only a few pages of this book, switched my camera over to manual mode.  I had LOVED the pictures I was getting from my new DSLR but I quickly got restless and wanted even better pictures.  I set the Fstop to 5.6 like he said and started to shoot.  I couldn't believe how easy it really was!

Here is one of my first attempts.  On auto my camera would generally be taking pretty dark pictures in this room.  I had my son stand by the window and I metered his face and... ta da!

(March 2011)
I couldn't believe that it actually worked!  I have been practicing in manual ever since and just this last month I went to visit my dad.  He said he had some lenses and I said, "Yea, but not for a Nikon."  He said, "Um, yes they are."
  
AND GUESS WHAT?

HE GAVE THEM TO ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Can you believe it? 

So right now I'm practicing on a lens that has a much higher aperture range (not sure if that is how you actually say it).  I love that I can get a blurry background now.  The only problem is that the lens doesn't really match up with the camera and it doesn't auto focus.  I'm really working hard trying to do everything myself.  The kit lens works better when I'm trying to get the kids on an outing but this new lens works nice when I can take time to figure it all out.

Here is a picture from just the other day.

(settings: ISO200, F2.8, ss1/2000)
This is a repeat from my last post but I love this one.  I don't think that it is completely in focus but I think that the blurriness makes it look soft.  What do you think?  What settings would have made this better?

To check out some other really great photos go here:
(who knows, you might be tempted to try manual mode too!)



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Monday, August 1, 2011

A Dress by Sunday

I haven't been blogging all summer.  I have some thoughts on that.  I might share, not sure.
*BUT*
being on vacation for 3 1/2 weeks really set off my rhythm.  Only part of it though!  Now on to the post!


When I saw this I knew I had to make it.  Here is mine!


I've had this fabric for a while.  I bought it at the thrift store for a $2.50.  I've kept it on the shelf wondering what I was going to do with it.  I knew I had to have the perfect pattern for it and here it is!  I still have enough to make another dress if I wanted to!  Yay.  The fabric is sheer so I needed to line it with white cotton.  I makes it pretty thick but still comfy and cute!

And like the last thing I made for my little one we had to do a photo shoot.
 Not so sunny this time.





Oh, and just to keep it real...


This is why her face is not in any of the other pictures.  I think that she is getting tired of me taking her photo all the time.

And these are cute but don't look to closely at the hose on the deck or the weeds.  Yikes.


Hope to see you soon!

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

My Favorite May Picture

Wow,  I haven't been around in a while. 

I haven't been taking many pictures.

I haven't had much to say...

But I wanted to share my favorite picture from May.  Courtney from Click it up a notch (awesome website) is hosting another contest


I chose this picture because I learned something new this month.  How to meter someone's face.  I think that I was a little off and got it too bright but I LOVE that her face isn't dark!  I can't wait to keep trying!



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Monday, May 16, 2011

Kids Clothes Week Challenge :: Ruffled Halter

Last week Elsie Marley hosted a Kids Clothes Week Challenge where you are to sew for an hour a day and make some new spring/summer clothes for your kiddos.  Last year I got a shirt done.  I am a very slow sewer.  This year I totally fudged on the rules.  I still only made one shirt but I did it the week before and in two (maybe three) nights.  I have no idea how much the whole thing took but my husband was on a trip and after the kids went to bed I could do what I wanted without feeling bad that I was ignoring my "better half".

If you want you can check out the flickr pool.  The things that these women pump out are amazing!  I do wonder if they really only sewed for an hour each day.  I don't think that they are counting all the prep work like washing the fabric and laying the pattern and cutting the pieces out. I could never work that fast!

So here is what I made:



It is the Ruffled Halter from Oliver+S.  I've always wanted to make something from one of their patterns and this one is free!  I also want to make her a pair of matching Knotted shorts.

Bethany is so willing to have a photo shoot.  Enjoy!









Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Ten on Ten :: Take Two in May

ten on ten button

Last month was my first time trying the Ten on Ten.  It was hard.  Lugging my camera around on a Sunday was awkward.  I was looking forward to this month to try again. 

Tuesday!
Then I found out that this month's ten on ten coincided with our churches pastor's conference. Ugh.  I was hoping for some outside time.  A little nature would be nice.

Turns out that the conference only went until lunch and it was the hottest day!  I did manage to get some outside shots.  I had to fudge on the times.  I really couldn't do one every hour.

So here we go...


6:30ish


I crept outside when the dandelions were still sleeping.


The lilacs are almost there.

7:00am


Made it over to the pastors' conference to have breakfast with my eldest daughter.

7:30am


Driving to school.  Gotta love the shoes.

During the conference.


This note fell out of the pew Bible.  Gotta love it.  NOT even from my own kid.


Picture of the shoes.  Just like last time.

After the conference.

I got home and we all dashed out the door to spend our time in the yard.
We were out there a good couple of hours.


 The rhubarb is going crazy!

 

This is why we don't mow our lawn until very late spring.


The seed pods look ready to burst.


My favorite kind of play.